Predictable Behavior Requires Predictable Systems
25 installable behavior systems for ages 0–5.
Dr. Deborah L. Tillman, M.S.Ed, Ed.D
30+ years in-home experience
For parents who want systems that hold — even when children test limits.
THE PARENTING OS (Digital Edition)
Format: Digital manual (mobile + print-ready)
$47.99 USD
Immediate digital access
25 installable behavior systems (ages 0–5)
Covers tantrums, hitting, mealtime, bedtime, transitions, and public behavior
Includes: What to do when a system stops working
Instant download today. Public release Feb 1.
WHAT'S INSIDE
25 installable behavior systems organized into five operating domains.
COMPLIANCE OS
COMMUNICATION OS
ROUTINE OS
INDEPENDENCE OS
ENVIRONMENT OS
Stabilizes tantrums, boundary testing, and unsafe behavior
Reduces whining, screaming, and refusal to follow instructions
Stabilizes bedtime, meals, transitions, and daily flow
Reduces constant help-seeking and increases self-directed behavior
Improves behavior in cars, stores, and drop-offs
COMPLIANCE OS
Stops tantrums, boundary testing, and unsafe behavior
COMMUNICATION Os
Eliminates whining, screaming, and refusal to follow instructions
ROUTINE OS
Stabilizes bedtime, meals, transitions, and daily flow
INDEPENDENCE OS
Builds self-reliance and reduces constant help-seeking
ENVIRONMENT OS
Controls behavior in public spaces, cars, drop-offs, and night waking
You do not run all systems at once.
You run one system at a time, based on priority.
Where to start
Start with the problem causing the most daily friction.
Tantrums or hitting ______ → Compliance OS
Mealtime or bedtime _____→ Routine OS
Public behavior _________→ Environment OS
How Fast Does This Work?
Many parents notice visible shifts within 3–5 days when a system is applied as written.
Routines typically stabilize within two weeks with consistent use.
THE OUTCOME
When structure is consistent, behavior stabilizes.
Parents use The Parenting OS to:
End tantrums without yelling
Get children to listen the first time
Reduce hitting and unsafe behavior
Stabilize bedtime, meals, and transitions
Reduce picky eating and mealtime battles
Improve public behavior (stores, cars, drop-offs)
When structure holds. The parent stays consistent.
Results From Parents We've Helped
Jennifer L.
mom of 4-year-old
“Bedtime used to take two hours. Using the Routine OS, within a few days she was going to bed without a fight.”
Maria T.
“We’d tried everything, but the Compliance OS worked. My son stopped hitting his sister within a week. I followed the system.”
Amy C.
“It’s not advice, it’s a system. When my daughter pushes back, I know exactly what to do instead of second-guessing myself.”
Kristen Ivy
President, Orange & Parent Cue
“To spend a day with Deborah is to feel both seen and elevated.”
Sarah Bragg
Author and podcast
host
“Her wisdom and grace have walked me through the stages of parenting.”
Shila Morris
“Her ‘parenting on purpose’ philosophy helped us build a stronger family foundation.”
Purposed Parenting does not guarantee specific results. Experiences shared may not be typical. Outcomes depend on application, consistency, and individual child and family dynamics. Results may vary.
PREDICTABLE BEHAVIOR REQUIRES
PREDICTABLE SYSTEMS.
THE PARENTING OS (Digital Edition)
Format: Digital manual (mobile + print-ready)
Early access available now
$47.99 USD
-
Immediate digital access
-
25 installable behavior systems (ages 0–5)
-
Covers tantrums, hitting, mealtime, bedtime, transitions, and public behavior
-
Includes: What to do when a system stops working
What's included:
Instant digital delivery
